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"You have a brain tumor." Five words. Each one of these words is harmless by itself. But string them together and you have one of the most frightening sentences for an individual to hear.

Tumors anywhere are bad enough. But a tumor in the brain is something mysterious, onerous and terrifying. The brain, after all, is the organ through which individuals interact with the world. The unique ways in which a person thinks, acts and feels are all governed by the specifics of their brain patterns and functions.

A brain tumor can forever change a person's life. A brain tumor also affects the people involved with the patient: family, friends, employer and coworkers. Their lives will dramatically change, as well. Everyone has different levels of concern. Many will go through the classic stages of grief associated with loss: disbelief, anger, acceptance and depression.

It is a painful time for everyone. But, with the diagnosis of a brain tumor, there really isn't time to go through the grieving process. What is needed is action and direction to be rid of the brain tumor and return to health.

The Brain Tumor Foundation provides this much-needed guidance. Following is a basic plan for someone newly diagnosed with a brain tumor. First: accept that until you get this behind you, your life has changed. Inform your employer that you have a major health issue and require a medical leave of absence of at least 6 weeks - starting right now. Dealing with your brain tumor will be your full time job. Here, in order of importance, is what you must now do: